Bad Boy Compared To Good Boy - Does Interest Have Anything To Do With Being A Bad Boy Versus A Nice Guy?
Well, we have all heard that myth - that "nice guys" fail and the 'bad boys" appeal to women - but I don't think it is always true.
At least I don't think it has anything to do with being a bad boy versus a nice guy.
I feel there are other personality factors involved that possibly bad boys and nice guys have that are the defining qualities of attraction.
Bad boys are often less shy, but in addition they are more confident in general than nice guys. I feel that it would be these qualities that are attracting a woman not the fact that a guy is bad.
I personally do not use the "bad boy" method when attracting women, I am most always a perfect gentleman. However, I am not an easy hook and women can tell that quickly when talking to me. I am a little reserved, I don't compliment women when I first meet them or tell them how beautiful they are, and most women don't have a hint as to whether I am keen on them or just being good.
That is what sets me beyond a "nice guy". Women see me as a perfect gentleman but haven't a clue if I am interested in them or not. Women -especially very attractive women - enjoy that. They are sick and tired of talking to men who fawn all over them.
Girls like guys who are interesting and unique. Attractive girls don't find gents who tell them how beautiful they are to be exceptional. But a guy who has an enjoyable conversation with them without stating a word about their beauty verbally or non-verbally - now that is both attractive and unique to a beautiful girl.
Also do not forget that women have different qualities. And what one thinks is interesting and unique changes from personality to personality. A not-so-good-looking woman may find it totally interesting and unique to be told how attractive she is by a man. A woman who grows up in a culture of perfect gentlemen, might very well see a guy who talks a little bad and naughty to be interesting and unique. A woman who knows nothing but rough and ignorant men, would find a gentlemen to be an unusual interesting and unique find.
You see irrespective of what you are like there is someone for you. But you have to define who that someone would be and then try to build up a scenario on how you would meet women like that. So regardless of if you are a bad boy or a nice guy, put yourself in a position where you are interesting and special to the women you come across and you will be victorious.
One of the hardest things to learn in life is that no matter what you are like there is definitely someone who is perfectly well-matched to you. Even if you are dull there are women who are completely compatible with that. Not every one wants to meet and hook up with the life of the celebration.
The problem is people who don't acknowledge themselves for who they are, attempt to act differently and they are not being real, so they don't attract anyone. Now if you just admit yourself for who you are and act the way you basically are, you will realize that there are people who will embrace you for who you are. So don't worry about whether you are boring or not, just be yourself. Sooner or later you will see a girl who will accept you for who you are.
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